TinMan
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abuse is abuse no matter how it is justified.That is not what we are talking about. Regardless, the truth might hurt, but it is not abuse.
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abuse is abuse no matter how it is justified.That is not what we are talking about. Regardless, the truth might hurt, but it is not abuse.
you mean its a choiceI did not respond with simply it is their choice.
I take it that you are the kind that comes up with your own conversation and replies and then try to put words in people's mouth.
On the topic of choice of a 13 year old girl. My advise....copy and pasted here so you cannot twist it...
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1. 13 is a little young for her to know that for sure. So do not over react.
2. There needs to be a discussion about any kind of sexual activity at that age.
3. Does your family go to church? If not find a good church. Pray about it but do not make her think she is awful. Or that you are rejecting her.
4. If she continues to think she is gay, she probably needs to talk to a councilor...
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On the topic of..... 13 is a little young for her to know that for sure. It is a well known fact that some young adults will experiment a little with their sexuality and that it does not usually set them one way or another....so my advice to not over react....is valid.
Again you are saying choiceOn the topic of choice for a young person....that is why I recommended a councilor.....making an informed decision.
Yes there are many hateful people who discriminate against LGBT people. There are many hateful people who discriminate against black people. The fact discrimination exists doesn't make black people are outcasts. The people being discriminated against are not the one's in the wrong it is the people doing and supporting that discrimination that are the problemBecause as you pointed out, all of the horrific ramifications of being LGBT is something that needs to be taken into consideration.
They are pretty much out casts from society and discriminated against for jobs and housing.
its also wrong for you to blame the victimViolence is not unheard of for sure.
They shame their families, particularly those that are Christian and their families may shun them. All this is wrong but it does happen.
How many heterosexuals do you know that end up doing drugs and catching various diseases?How many homosexuals that you know end up doing drugs and catching various diseases.
Are you saying that justifies hate and discrimination and violence?Then from the biblical perspective they are damn and will likely go to Hell.
So again my advise to seek counseling is valid. So that the young person can make a informed decision.
The dangers faced come from others who choose to hate and discrimination and engage in violence, (or try to justify those who do) not from being LGBTThey can talk over all the ramifications and dangers and if they decide to live the LGBT lifestyle, then they are free to do so.
I have not seen anyone here try to justify hurting kids.
They shame their families,
Not always....sometimes with young people no actual decision is made....they experiment with their sexuality and prefer one over the other.you mean its a choice
Number one, I am not talking about people of color.Yes there are many hateful people who discriminate against LGBT people. There are many hateful people who discriminate against black people. The fact discrimination exists doesn't make black people are outcasts. The people being discriminated against are not the one's in the wrong it is the people doing and supporting that discrimination that are the problem
And it is wrong to blame reality and the Bible.its also wrong for you to blame the victim
No! That is between them and Christ.Are you saying that justifies hate and discrimination and violence?
So are you saying they would face dangers and hate and discrimination if they were not LGBT.The dangers faced come from others who choose to hate and discrimination and engage in violence, (or try to justify those who do) not from being LGBT
Talk about it. At that age it could be a stage she’s going through or the popular thing to be.Demonstrating love for her is easy and not an issue. I'm just wondering if it's damaging to discuss it beyond that.
Daughter: I'm gay.
Parent: That's okay. I love you no matter what.
End of story because you don't want to damage the kid.
Or should there be more discussion?
Daughter: I'm gay.
Parent: I love you no matter what, kiddo. Can you tell me what makes you say that?
Dialogue follows...
You are equating celibacy with homosexuality. They are not the same. Ask PaulYou condemn homosexuals as being unnatural and under the influence of evil because they defy God and don't marry someone of the opposite gender and they don't have children....which is exactly what celibates do. Are celibates also unnatural and under the influence of evil and defying God?
If you dared to call my wedding dancing companion the devil i would defend her honor and punch you in the face.
Wow, so you want to criminalize being a member of a minority and imprison them?Not always....sometimes with young people no actual decision is made....they experiment with their sexuality and prefer one over the other.
If people choose to be homosexual is something people debate.
But either way being attracted to the same sex does not mean you are forced to have sex with the same sex. That is a choice. If it is not, and they are out of control then they need to be committed to and institution.
hate and violence are always options and abusing a child is ALWAYS wrong.Number one, I am not talking about people of color.
Number two, the horrors that you described are not an option. Right or wrong they are reality and what homosexuals have to endure awaiting judgment.
Jesus isn't abusing children.No! That is between them and Christ.
Never said that.Wow, so you want to criminalize being a member of a minority and imprison them?
It still a matter of action as opposed to desire. Nothing is forcing anybody to have sex with the same sex.Wow, so you want to criminalize being a member of a minority and imprison them?
Well there is historical precedent, they used to do that to gays and lesbians in the good old days. It was claimed it was for their own good of course and the those in charge of the camps...i mean institutions worked tirelessly to cure those misguided homosexuals. The most effective cure involved using a hammer to pound an iron spike into the skull of "out of control" homosexuals. it was called an ice pick lobotomy and no one knows just how many people were subjected to it. Sure most people died from the procedure, but I. suppose if they died you could pretend they were cured. Of course those gays got what they deserved, I mean they could have chosen to lie and hide.
One defies God and doesn't marry a person of the opposite gender and does not have children. and the other defies God and doesn't marry a person of the opposite gender and does not have children.You are equating celibacy with homosexuality. They are not the same. Ask Paul
you said: " they need to be committed to and institution" that is imprisonmentNever said that.
Nothing forces parents to hurt their children either.It still a matter of action as opposed to desire. Nothing is forcing anybody to have sex with the same sex.
That is the history of how institutionalized homosexuals.And I never suggested any thing like what you described.
I'm not the one justifying child abuse.It gets down to be responsible for your own actions. If you are out of control that is a problem. What if it is about children, you going to defend that?
Staying single does not defy God.1Co 7:1 - Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. 1Co 7:8 - I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I.One defies God and doesn't marry a person of the opposite gender and does not have children. and the other defies God and doesn't marry a person of the opposite gender and does not have children.
The same except one is attracked and condemned for doing this and the other is not.
Who is they? Not just homo's...homo's that are out of control. Imprisonment is in a prison....not a mental health facility.you said: " they need to be committed to and institution" that is imprisonment
You are right, but that has nothing to do with someone deciding to be sexually immoral.Nothing forces parents to hurt their children either.
No body is talking about institutionalizing homosexuals....That is the history of how institutionalized homosexuals.
What do you think would happen to the millions of people your want locked up?
I am not justifying child abuse. I suggested counseling.I'm not the one justifying child abuse.