that was pretty much your implication. In responding to a post about the horrific levels of abuse LGBT kids face your response was, it's their choice.
I did not respond with simply it is their choice.
I take it that you are the kind that comes up with your own conversation and replies and then try to put words in people's mouth.
On the topic of choice of a 13 year old girl. My advise....copy and pasted here so you cannot twist it...
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1. 13 is a little young for her to know that for sure. So do not over react.
2. There needs to be a discussion about any kind of sexual activity at that age.
3. Does your family go to church? If not find a good church. Pray about it but do not make her think she is awful. Or that you are rejecting her.
4. If she continues to think she is gay, she probably needs to talk to a councilor...
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On the topic of..... 13 is a little young for her to know that for sure. It is a well known fact that some young adults will experiment a little with their sexuality and that it does not usually set them one way or another....so my advice to not over react....is valid.
On the topic of choice for a young person....that is why I recommended a councilor.....making an informed decision.
Because as you pointed out, all of the horrific ramifications of being LGBT is something that needs to be taken into consideration.
They are pretty much out casts from society and discriminated against for jobs and housing. Violence is not unheard of for sure.
They shame their families, particularly those that are Christian and their families may shun them.
All this is wrong but it does happen.
How many homosexuals that you know end up doing drugs and catching various diseases.
Then from the biblical perspective they are damn and will likely go to Hell.
So again my advise to seek counseling is valid. So that the young person can make a informed decision. They can talk over all the ramifications and dangers and if they decide to live the LGBT lifestyle, then they are free to do so.