I really am truly having a most difficult dilemma with the... do I stay... or do I go... I think the fact that the only alternative for me is...
If I go... I am BACK to being all alone... which is fine... but for some reason.... my heart seems to be nagging at me that I am missing something...
I have gotten caught up in the ARGUING threads.... and I have experienced that even when I speak CLEARLY... there is someone to come in and twist my words... These people seem to be dominating the forums... the bullies... and the arrogant ones... They spoil the soup...
Anyways... I still have not decided what I am going to do.... or how I could be of service to this place... in a way that would actually mean something... I am in communication with a few people and I have been encouraging them. I like your idea.
@Addy I have felt much the same as you recently and hate the long, drawn out 'discussions' that get nobody anywhere - round and round in circles. There are too many bullies on here, trying to 'put us all right' because they are 'clever' and 'knowledgeable'. They don't want to get into real conversations but just to preach at the rest of us who are wrong in everything we post.
My own solution has been mainly to steer clear of the bully brigade and only join a thread that is more positive than negative and also start my own posts - but you know from experience how that can turn out. I need the fellowship of people like you @Addy so please don't go.