I have always seen it as this
@face2face,
When it comes to the birth of Christ in the most general sense my belief is this:
God was in the beginning. God spoke through His Word that had the power to create. God though he is Spirit, has a Holy Spirit which is of God. God sent his Word - that which was named in the flesh Jesus, he second named was Immanuel which meant "God with us".
How is this possible? For the Word to be named in the flesh Jesus, and his second name Immanuel which means "God with us". Considering God created us with a Soul. I believe it was the Word of God's soul inside that body of flesh. The Word of God, always had his thoughts on what God says, as it is the Word of God an attached attribute, that was sent down in which the Virgin Mary was carrying the one whom was born by the Holy Spirit, and by the Flesh - Jesus.
Considering what Jesus said in John 14; He talks about Him and his Father being one. How is that possible? It is because Jesus is the Word - that was in the beginning with God made flesh - who now was born, having the Holy Spirit of God with Him, His Father, Yahweh who was in Heaven but also with Him by the Holy Spirit... being the very word of God.
So the conclusion for me is that Jesus, was the Word of God that was God - which was with them in that century. It is also said that when Jesus and the Father are one, they become known as the Lord God Almighty.
That is the way I look at these things when it comes to the make of Jesus, because he was never Jesus in the beginning and God did not talk to his Son, he talked to the Angels.
God decided to make creations that were similar like to the abilities they had. Such as choice to obey God or to choose to rebel, freely by your own independent will. That is what happened with Satan who decide he rather have the earth than be in heaven only to end up in the lake of fire forever along with his angels.
A Soul - God has, a mind, will, emotions - so did the Angels, - thus so does Man/Woman - They have a mind, will, emotions and that is known as our Soul. And many people believe this Soul never goes on and instead dies. From what I believe all Souls are raised again, faithful, and faithless due to God through Christ reconciling himself to the World.
An amazing truly, graceful, truthful, no darkness with-in God we do serve who is Good, and Love.