@ScottA I remember where I was when I first hear the concept that we all made our choice before it all began.
It totally blew my mind and took a long time to sink it.
It was an all day seminar...and each session had an open forum questions and answers. ( much needed :) )
He finally distilled it down to ...we made our choice before the world or time started...and now , like a stage...we act out our choices.
Now that part I still haven't got locked down clearly.
I know God knew what choice A&E would make back before the Garden was created.
So, what is the whole point of us acting out our choices...if we have already chosen!!

Can any negative choices be changed in our life?
Plus, does this not feed into fatalism?
I take my hat off to you...you are a very brave man to attempt to get your points across on a written page like this!