Posts 194, 217, and 222 will get you caught up.
You have quite an imagination, In your first example in post 194 reminds me of Your bar Scenario.. what's the difference as long as they repent of their sin after right?, you talk about conning Jesus well try this scenario, If you had a wife, imagine if your bar scenario played out and then when you go home the next morning you say I committed adultery by accident it wasn't willful at all But I'm sure it's ok because I changed my mind now so let's get over it....talk about conning them....now compare that to someone that loved there wife and reads To Love Your wife like Jesus Loved the Church wow What a standard To live up to if you tried to live up to that.....But it has deeper spiritual principles, You cherish The sanctity of marriage and would never want to risk or destroy the faith and trust Of the One your supposed to hold so dear, And you couldn't do it even when temptation comes Whats the Difference??? you definitely wouldn't go out thinking as you said "start out the night thinking, I can do anything I want and get away with it....people try they pay with there families even there life at times, depression suicide happens all the time... Love as a motivating Factor is possibly the most powerful thing in the world I would say....But as always it needs perspective Even Satan is Driven By Love for himself
Which leads me to your other post was kinda condemning and accusatory and hell and payment I didn't see the Love Of Jesus In it to be honest...
A few things stuck out but you do some long posts with many interesting ideas... but mainly Jesus Come to do many things I could give a long list but for the context of what we were talking about 1 timothy 1:15 says Jesus came into the world to save sinners
The other thing I couldn't ignore was you said "Salvation is a sturdy institution and we can be confident in Christ. But if you think you can con Him...work the process...you are up against a God and He is smarter than you.:
A sturdy Institution? lol what is that, Salvation Is Jesus, He achieved it when he gave his Blood at Calvary, The gift of God is eternal Life, God will send the Holy Spirit that will never leave you, When you say God throws Christians in Hell, He cant Lie and he Doesn't throw the Holy Spirit in Hell, Think about it as you said you are up against a God that is smarter than you, God Offered One way, Worry about being on the other side of that
Now on willful sins
There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God
is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear
it.
When temptation Comes you always have a choice to escape all Sin is willful.