The bible is not my God and does not connect me to anything other than what someone else wrote and another published it.
I didn't say that the Bible is your God. The Bible can connect concepts, such as connecting our love for God with our obedience to His commandments, such as:
Exodus 20:6 but showing steadfast love to thousands of those who love me and keep my commandments.
Deuteronomy 5:10 but showing steadfast love to thousands of those who love me and keep my commandments.
Deuteronomy 7:9 Know therefore that the Lord your God is God, the faithful God who keeps covenant and steadfast love with those who love him and keep his commandments, to a thousand generations,
Deuteronomy 11:1. “You shall therefore love the Lord your God and keep his charge, his statutes, his rules, and his commandments always.
Deuteronomy 11:13 “And if you will indeed obey my commandments that I command you today, to love the Lord your God, and to serve him with all your heart and with all your soul,
Joshua 22:5 Only be very careful to observe the commandment and the law that Moses the servant of the Lord commanded you, to love the Lord your God, and to walk in all his ways and to keep his commandments and to cling to him and to serve him with all your heart and with all your soul.”
Daniel 9:4 I prayed to the Lord my God and made confession, saying, “O Lord, the great and awesome God, who keeps covenant and steadfast love with those who love him and keep his commandments,
John 14:15 “If you love me, you will keep my commandments.
John 14:21 Whoever has my commandments and keeps them, he it is who loves me. And he who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I will love him and manifest myself to him.”
John 14:31 but I do as the Father has commanded me, so that the world may know that I love the Father. Rise, let us go from here.
John 15:10 If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father's commandments and abide in his love.
1 John 5:2-3 By this we know that we love the children of God, when we loveGod and obey his commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments. And his commandments are not burdensome.
2 John 1:6 And this is love, that we walk according to his commandments; this is the commandment, just as you have heard from the beginning, so that you should walk in it.
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Clearly God's commandments are His instructions for how to love Him and we can't love Him instead of obeying His instructions for how to love Him.