I finally made it through the video in the OP. I believe congregations should accept homosexuals into the congregation, without shunning them. The guy in the video makes a good point about the hypocrisy of tolerating some sins but not others. Then there is the potential for abusing them, which comes when people act like animals and that never belongs in a church.
I distinguish between tolerance and acceptance, because no sins should be accepted. Christians get divorced, they should know they are committing a sin; but when the dust it settled they need to be forgiven. Christians commit adultery, but don't tend to go announcing their activities to the world... they didn't used to. Covetousness, is probably the most prolific sin in the western church and it is hard to nail down but I digress. Sin should be taught and also rebuked properly when it comes to light. Excommunication
I understand some people will have a proclivity towards the same sex, and they will not be changed by any human effort. That doesn't change that it is a shameful sin to act on those desires. But what we see is a push to make sins acceptable, and sometimes even promoted. How many have considered chastity? Not many in this day and age. I don't buy the self actualization rubbish in support of gay marriage, that is not valid justification for accepting something that is unbiblical.
Where would Jesus stand? He stood with the sinners who needed to repent! He did not stand with the proud, but he came to humble the proud and give grace to the humble.
Fact is not many practicing homosexuals are looking towards repentance and change.
Homosexuality, same sex marriage, fornication, adultery, needs to be addressed in the church.
Can't have active, unrepentant sin control the church, men can't marry men, simple.
Homosexuals, fornicators, adulterers, have a place in the church seeking repentance and acceptance of Jesus Christ. Those that don't desire to repent and change need to find another home.
Can't send a false message out to the church that the sins are allowed.
Romans 1:24-32KJV
24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.